Becoming ...... & Being Human / Menswees.......

When you were born, you didn’t come with an owner’s manual.... only Manufacturer's Instructions!

Although there’s no formula to help you win the game of life, there are wisdom & rules for being human, -once understood and embraced, that can contribute to meaningful relationships with ourselves and others, at work and in the home.

YOU WILL receive (on loan) -A BODY.......
Whether you love it or hate it, it’s yours for life, so accept it. 

What counts is what’s inside.....

YOU WILL BE presented WITH LESSONS.....
Life is a constant learning experience, which every day provides opportunities for you to learn more. 

These lessons specific to you, and learning them ‘is the key to discovering and fulfilling the meaning and relevance of your own life’.

THERE ARE no MISTAKES, only LESSONS......
Your development towards wisdom is a process of experimentation, trial, and error, so it is inevitable things will not always go to plan or turn out how you’d want. 

Compassion is the remedy for harsh judgment – of ourselves and others. 

Forgiveness is not only divine – it’s also ‘the act of erasing an emotional debt’. 

Behaving ethically, with integrity, and with humor – especially the ability to laugh at yourself and your own mishaps – are central to the perspective that ‘mistakes’ are simply lessons we must learn....

THE LESSON IS REPEATED until LEARNED....
Lessons repeat until learned....

What manifests as problems and challenges, irritations and frustrations are more lessons – they will repeat until you see them as such and learn from them!

Your own awareness and your ability to change are requisites of executing this rule. 

Also fundamental is the acceptance that you are not a victim of fate or circumstance – ‘causality’ must be acknowledged; that is to say: things happen to you because of how you are and what you do. 

To blame anyone or anything else for your misfortunes is an escape and a denial; you yourself are responsible for you, and what happens to you. 

Patience is required – change doesn’t happen overnight, so give change time to happen.

LEARNING DOES not END......
While you are alive there are always lessons to be learned. 

Surrender to the ‘rhythm of life’, don’t struggle against it. 

Commit to the process of constant learning and change – be humble enough to always acknowledge your own weaknesses, and be flexible enough to adapt from what you may be accustomed to because rigidity will deny you the freedom of new possibilities.

“THERE” IS NO BETTER THAN “HERE”...
The other side of the hill may be greener than your own, but being there is not the key to endless happiness. 

Be grateful for and enjoy what you have, and where you are on your journey. 

Appreciate the abundance of what’s good in your life, rather than measure and amass things that do not actually lead to happiness. 

Living in the present helps you attain Peace & contentment!

OTHERS ARE ONLY 'Reflections' / MIRRORS' OF YOU.....
You love or hate something about another person according to what love or hate about yourself. 

Be tolerant; accept others as they are, and strive for clarity of self-awareness; strive to truly understand and have an objective perception of your own self, your thoughts, & feelings. 

Negative experiences are opportunities to heal the wounds that you carry. 

Support others, and by doing so you support yourself. 

Where you are unable to support others it is a sign that you are not adequately attending to your own needs.

WHAT  YOU MAKE OF YOUR ' circumstances' IS UP TO YOU....
You have all the tools and resources you need.

What you do with them is up to you. 

Take responsibility for yourself. 

Learn to let go when you cannot change things. 

Don’t get angry about things – bitter memories clutter your mind. 

Courage resides in all of us – use it when you need to do what’s right for you. 

We all possess a strong natural power and adventurous spirit, which you should draw on to embrace what lies ahead.

BE Discerning & SENSITIVE....
Trust your instincts and your innermost feelings, whether you hear them as a little voice or a flash of inspiration. 

Listen to feelings as well as sounds. 

Look, listen, and trust. 

Draw on your natural inspiration.

We are JUST passing through...... don't become too fixated on things of temporary nature.....focus on Eternal values. 
You are going to spend Eternity There!

Shalom & Maranatha