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Sunday, December 05, 2010

Being commited........ NOT 99%.......but 100%

The strongest force in the world is Gracious & Everlasting Commitment ! 

If you're Blessed...
.......to be married........, 
-your primary relationship in life is with your spouse.
.......& of course, -without a doubt....., 
-the strength of that relationship will go a long way to determine your happiness in life!

Someone once acknowledged that sometime in the past, she had some problems with her/(their) marriage to the point where she was considering other alternatives.....
But she REALLY wanted it to work and decided to try what he called "the 100% commitment experiment," (not 99%, but 100%). 
She said in doing so, something magical happened!
She began to look for the positives and began to enjoy her spouse more each & every day. 
He naturally responded by being much nicer to her. 
She said it began an amazing transformation; and today, after many decades of marriage, they've never been happier......



There is a remarkable difference between a commitment of 99% and 100%. 
At 100%, you are seeing your problems all the way through to their (whatever need to be done) solutions. 
At 99% we can still find a way to take the path of least resistance...and usually do.

And guess what.......? 
"The 100% commitment experiment" not only works for marriage...it also works for life.


But.......nevertheless the above...Remember, 
* "You DO influence from the Top.....& Built from the bottom,..up!"
* A Relationship, STILL remains a 'dynamic' 2-way street; BOTH need to be 100% -Committed, & willing to sacrifice whatever it takes to make it happen, -else..... it will..... eventually dismally fail.......

Shalom

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