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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Relationship issues............ I Believe in........



I DO Believe ... 
... That just because two people do differ from one another, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. 
Just because they don't agree or argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.
... That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends needs & perceptions  of us change, & therefore our 'perceived value' to them.......
... That no matter how 'good' a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that; hopefully they have the Spiritual maturity in humbleness to be the 1st to 'seek forgiveness'
... That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. 
Same goes for true love........ & never underestimate the lasting value, thereof 
... That you can do something 'unthinkable' in an instant, that will give you heartache for life.
... That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be; change that are desired by others for yourself, -might be only a 'pipe-dream'.... 
Rather accept people 'in full' for what they are now; else if you can't accept them unconditionally, step away.........   
... That you should ALWAYS leave loved ones with Loving words, as it may be the last time you see them.
... That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
... That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we 'feel'.
... That either you control your Attitude or it controls you.
... That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
... That my true 'soul-mate' and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
... That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up .
... That sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel or degrading destructive.
... That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had, and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
... That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
... That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't care about it or stop for your grief; only 'true friends' do....... 
... That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
... That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.......it could change your life forever.
... Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
... That your life can be changed (for the better or worst), in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
... That even when you think you have 'no more' to give, when a friend cries out to you—you will find the strength to help.
... That 'credentials on the wall' & status, image & such-like 'issues-of-pride', do not make you a decent human being.
... That the people you care about most in life are taken from you tóó soon.... irreplaceable!
... The happiest of people don't necessarily have the 'best of everything'; they just make the best of everything they have.
... We never know how much time is left where 'outstanding issues' can still possible be rearranged. 
... If we could just slow down long enough to consider what's true and real, & always try to understand the way other people really feel, when perceiving our actions against them.
... If we could be less quick to anger and show appreciation more, & love the people in our lives like we've never loved before. 
... If we treat each other with more 'true' respect and more often wear a smile, whilst remembering that the 'time remaining', might only last a little while.
... Success is nothing without someone you love to share it with !

We, ALL are just Living, 'in Grace' on borrowed time; the influence & impact we might have on each other, are limited to the the actual time we are allowed to actually spent in the presence of each other; let us not 'undervalue' the privilege of such moments, now, as the clock we can NEVER turn back.........     
May regrets never be repeated.........ever again.
.....never forgetting, -how 'small we really are & how little we know'...!
 
Shalom

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